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	<title>Comments on: How to Make the Choices You Really Want to Make in Life</title>
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		<title>By: Choices &#8211; From a Blog &#171; Unstranger&#8217;s Blog</title>
		<link>http://punintended.com/how-to-make-the-choices-you-really-want-to-make-in-life/comment-page-1/#comment-2034</link>
		<dc:creator>Choices &#8211; From a Blog &#171; Unstranger&#8217;s Blog</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 12 May 2009 14:10:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] read online quite a bit and here&#8217;s something I read this morning and which I think is worth sharing. You may say it&#8217;s nuts; you may [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] read online quite a bit and here&#8217;s something I read this morning and which I think is worth sharing. You may say it&#8217;s nuts; you may [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Bamboo Forest</title>
		<link>http://punintended.com/how-to-make-the-choices-you-really-want-to-make-in-life/comment-page-1/#comment-2020</link>
		<dc:creator>Bamboo Forest</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 20 Apr 2009 14:52:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@ Sara: Hah. Golden shower... not familiar with that :]

I think we constantly forget we have a choice. When we make bad choices consistently the idea that we have a choice is probably not embedded in our minds and spirits to the extent that it should be.

Thanks for stopping by.

@ Janice: Well, if you like hearing about people&#039;s epiphanies you should make sure you catch the P.I. Universe&#039;s posts. Because when and if I have an epiphany I will most likely share it here.

Thanks.

That&#039;s a great question to ask oneself. I love the way you worded it. I will definitely be using that for myself.

Well said.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@ Sara: Hah. Golden shower&#8230; not familiar with that :]</p>
<p>I think we constantly forget we have a choice. When we make bad choices consistently the idea that we have a choice is probably not embedded in our minds and spirits to the extent that it should be.</p>
<p>Thanks for stopping by.</p>
<p>@ Janice: Well, if you like hearing about people&#8217;s epiphanies you should make sure you catch the P.I. Universe&#8217;s posts. Because when and if I have an epiphany I will most likely share it here.</p>
<p>Thanks.</p>
<p>That&#8217;s a great question to ask oneself. I love the way you worded it. I will definitely be using that for myself.</p>
<p>Well said.</p>
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		<title>By: janice</title>
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		<dc:creator>janice</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 20 Apr 2009 14:39:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I LOVE to hear about people&#039;s epiphanies! Thanks for sharing yours. I always enjoy your comments, wherever our paths cross, and this post helped me get to know you better.

I like to ask myself &lt;b&gt;&quot;Will this choice take me closer to where I want to be or further away?&quot; &lt;/b&gt; If we know who we are, what we really want in our heart of hearts and what we value in &lt;i&gt;all &lt;/i&gt; of the areas of our lives, like health, finances, career, personal relationships, spirituality, as well as in each of our roles - for example as writers, spouses, parents, friends, colleagues - then every single choice, every decision becomes easier. For example, every hour I spend online now has to pass that &#039;golden door&#039; question.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I LOVE to hear about people&#8217;s epiphanies! Thanks for sharing yours. I always enjoy your comments, wherever our paths cross, and this post helped me get to know you better.</p>
<p>I like to ask myself <b>&#8220;Will this choice take me closer to where I want to be or further away?&#8221; </b> If we know who we are, what we really want in our heart of hearts and what we value in <i>all </i> of the areas of our lives, like health, finances, career, personal relationships, spirituality, as well as in each of our roles &#8211; for example as writers, spouses, parents, friends, colleagues &#8211; then every single choice, every decision becomes easier. For example, every hour I spend online now has to pass that &#8216;golden door&#8217; question.</p>
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		<title>By: Sara</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sara</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Apr 2009 22:46:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Bamboo - I loved what you said about choice, but I&#039;m too sure about the golden door...I do hope it&#039;s not like the golden shower:~)

I liked this post because you dealt with our choices and being aware that we ARE making them.

I loved this line &quot;Part of our problem in making bad choices is we often forget we had one to begin with.&quot; This is so true...I know I&#039;ve done this...well actually both things...made the bad decision and then forgot that I had a choice.  It&#039;s just so easy to blame someone or something else. I must work harder on this...

Your point is well made and I appreciate the reminder.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Bamboo &#8211; I loved what you said about choice, but I&#8217;m too sure about the golden door&#8230;I do hope it&#8217;s not like the golden shower:~)</p>
<p>I liked this post because you dealt with our choices and being aware that we ARE making them.</p>
<p>I loved this line &#8220;Part of our problem in making bad choices is we often forget we had one to begin with.&#8221; This is so true&#8230;I know I&#8217;ve done this&#8230;well actually both things&#8230;made the bad decision and then forgot that I had a choice.  It&#8217;s just so easy to blame someone or something else. I must work harder on this&#8230;</p>
<p>Your point is well made and I appreciate the reminder.</p>
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		<title>By: Bamboo Forest</title>
		<link>http://punintended.com/how-to-make-the-choices-you-really-want-to-make-in-life/comment-page-1/#comment-2035</link>
		<dc:creator>Bamboo Forest</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Apr 2009 22:18:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@ Marelisa: I think you&#039;re right about that. I think we have a tendency to make a choice something impossibly huge. By visualizing it as simply walking through a door into a better environment helps deter us from seeing the choice as insurmountable when it is never close to that.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@ Marelisa: I think you&#8217;re right about that. I think we have a tendency to make a choice something impossibly huge. By visualizing it as simply walking through a door into a better environment helps deter us from seeing the choice as insurmountable when it is never close to that.</p>
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		<title>By: Marelisa</title>
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		<dc:creator>Marelisa</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Apr 2009 21:44:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Bamboo: That&#039;s a really interesting technique.  I think that by making the choice &quot;visual&quot; you&#039;re adding an additional element to help you make that choice.  Like BC Doan said: your door is now mine :-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Bamboo: That&#8217;s a really interesting technique.  I think that by making the choice &#8220;visual&#8221; you&#8217;re adding an additional element to help you make that choice.  Like BC Doan said: your door is now mine <img src='http://punintended.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Bamboo Forest</title>
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		<dc:creator>Bamboo Forest</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Apr 2009 20:00:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@ The Laywer Mom: I&#039;m not familiar with that door. Interesting.

@ Writer Dad: Good insight. I like what you have spoken.

@ Vered: Well... what&#039;s forced on us by circumstances out of our control by definition isn&#039;t a choice. The choice would be in our response.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@ The Laywer Mom: I&#8217;m not familiar with that door. Interesting.</p>
<p>@ Writer Dad: Good insight. I like what you have spoken.</p>
<p>@ Vered: Well&#8230; what&#8217;s forced on us by circumstances out of our control by definition isn&#8217;t a choice. The choice would be in our response.</p>
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		<title>By: Vered - MomGrind</title>
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		<dc:creator>Vered - MomGrind</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Apr 2009 19:49:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>“Our life is nothing more than a series of choices.” I love that sentence. My first reaction was, &quot;well, some choices are forced on us by circumstances,&quot; but that isn&#039;t true. Regardless of circumstances, we always have a choice.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>“Our life is nothing more than a series of choices.” I love that sentence. My first reaction was, &#8220;well, some choices are forced on us by circumstances,&#8221; but that isn&#8217;t true. Regardless of circumstances, we always have a choice.</p>
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		<title>By: Writer Dad</title>
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		<dc:creator>Writer Dad</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Apr 2009 15:04:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>That door isn&#039;t always easy to open let alone walk through, yet it is ALWAYS a threshold worth crossing.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>That door isn&#8217;t always easy to open let alone walk through, yet it is ALWAYS a threshold worth crossing.</p>
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		<title>By: The Lawyer Mom</title>
		<link>http://punintended.com/how-to-make-the-choices-you-really-want-to-make-in-life/comment-page-1/#comment-2019</link>
		<dc:creator>The Lawyer Mom</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 12 Apr 2009 21:46:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My door is red and behind it are many massages.  Aaah.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My door is red and behind it are many massages.  Aaah.</p>
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